ManzilMonth 1-3 — visibility and structure
(1) Full income disclosure — both partners share monthly salary, bonus structure, side income. (2) Debt disclosure — loans (housing, vehicle, personal, credit card), monthly EMI. (3) Asset disclosure — savings, investments, property, jewellery. (4) Family obligations disclosure — monthly contributions to parents / siblings. (5) Joint bank account opened — single primary spending account for shared expenses.
Expense split model — three common options
(a) Equal split — 50/50 of shared expenses regardless of income. Simple but may strain lower earner. (b) Proportional split — each partner contributes proportional to income. Fairer but adds complexity. (c) Pool model — both salaries go into joint account; couple decides allocation together. Most modern Indian couples use a hybrid: a fixed contribution from each into shared expenses, individual discretion on remaining income.
Savings targets
(1) Emergency fund — 6 months of household expenses in liquid savings / FD. (2) Monthly savings target — 20-30% of combined post-tax income. (3) Goal-specific savings — wedding repayment (if applicable), house down payment, vacation, child planning.
Debt management
(a) High-interest debt (credit card 30%+, personal loan 12-15%) — pay off first. (b) Moderate-interest debt (vehicle loan 8-10%) — pay on schedule. (c) Low-interest debt (home loan 8-9%) — pay on schedule, prioritise other investments over pre-payment. Consolidate debt where beneficial — personal loan to repay credit card saves 15%+ APR.
Insurance — health, life, vehicle
Health: family floater for couple + future children, ₹10-25 lakh sum insured. Term life: 10-15x annual income, both partners. Vehicle: comprehensive on all vehicles. Critical illness / accident: optional but worth ₹500-2,000/month for peace of mind.
Investment alignment
(1) Risk tolerance — discuss and align. Equity-heavy if 30+ years to retirement; debt-heavier as retirement nears. (2) Tax-saving — joint home loan principal + interest, ELSS / NPS / PPF contributions. (3) Asset allocation — typical Indian couple: 60% equity (mutual funds / index funds), 25% debt (PPF, FD, bonds), 15% gold + alternatives. (4) Investment account — joint or individual; either works.
Tax planning
(a) Joint home loan — both partners as borrowers, both claim deduction. (b) HRA optimisation if both salaried — strategic rental arrangement. (c) Investment splitting — child of either parent (when children come) saves tax. (d) Consult CA in first 3-6 months for joint tax strategy.
Family contribution planning
Common in Indian families: monthly contribution to parents, festival gifts, sibling support. Resolution: agree on amount, treat as fixed monthly line item, separate from couple's discretionary spending. Surprise asks here cause the most financial friction; expected fixed contributions cause the least.
Long-term goals
5-year: emergency fund + house down payment + retirement investments started. 10-year: house purchased + children planned + retirement on track. 20-year: house paid off + children's education funded + retirement on schedule. 30-year: retirement-ready + children settled. Goals only meaningful if discussed and tracked together.
Common financial conflicts
(1) Spending style — one saver / one spender. Resolution: separate discretionary accounts. (2) Family contribution disagreement. Resolution: fixed monthly amount, separate from joint finances. (3) Risk tolerance differences. Resolution: split investment portfolio. (4) Hidden debt / spending — disclosure rebuild with transparency. (5) Income gap shame. Resolution: explicit conversation, separate from couple's value to each other.
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